This seems so obvious to me, but yet another columnist misses the essential point. Most of us (men), presumably also most of the men who care about sports, don't perceive other men in a sexual way. Conversely we see almost all women (except Mom, nuns (well, most of them), and old people) as sexual beings. It has nothing to do with the fact that the best men would beat the best women in most sports (because they would.) It's the fact that when I happen to see a WNBA or LPGA event, I can't help getting an eyefull of ugly. I can't help but notice, it's like being stabbed in the eye. I realize men are ugly too. I'm just not programmed to care.